dogs and such

On Saturday on our long walk through the neighborhood Kaspar and I dropped in on a friend, who lives close by and has a dog named Hector. It was a totally spontaneous visit, that sort of arose from Kaspar’s obsession with all dogs that passed us along the way. I’m starting to feel like my 19 month old is putting on the pressure - I want a pet! I’ll blame it on "Caillou and his furry friends".... :-)

However, we did have a grand time! They came out for a walk with us and finally came to our place for a visit! Kaspar was able to touch and pet and hug and bug Hector to his heart’s content. The rest of the evening was spent talking about Hector pretty much non stop. He's been nick named "ecko" with a silent "h" and the inability to pronoune the "R" I guess that's the closest he could come up with. I think he must have even had dreams about the dog in the early part of the night, because he jumped up and barked a couple of times, only to go right back to sleep right after. The impression a dog can leave on a little fellow like that, wow!

Kaspar has been initiated into the pop culture of Canada! Do you guys know this character? If you want to hang out with Kaspar, you better know him! Yup! Kaspar is crazy about Caillou.

It all began one fine day, when Steve took Kaspar to a Value Village to pick out some toys and found a video tape of Caillou amongst the bags of goodies. No, not a DVD, but a Video tape. We still have a VCR and keeping it has proven to be a wise choice, because it seems that many parents are getting rid of their perfectly fine tapes of kids stuff and switching to DVD’s. And we have stumbled onto a treasure of movies for a buck or two at the Value Village. Of course the rewinding is not fun. Neither is skipping through scenes. But, at least it’s a good reason not to watch the same tape over and over again without taking a break. Right? Wrong! The first Caillou tape Kaspar got, was rewound and played over and over again so many times, that even I seem to know the entire dialogue off by hart now.

It must have been a Wednesday or Thursday, when we first got that guilty video tape. It was all about Caillou and his cat Gilbert, but the best episode (Kaspar’s absolute favourite) is the part where Gilbert has to be rescued from the tree by firefighters and then Caillou goes to the fire station for a visit. Funny enough that coming Sunday we had made plans with Kaspar’s buddies Emil and Markus to visit our friend Mike’s work. You probably guessed - Mike is a firefighter!

The visit was an absolute hit. Kaspar might have been even more into it then Emil, who is a few years older and definitely understands the concept of a firefighter a lot better. Kaspar wanted to sit in the truck, kept asking to have it turn on, liked to move the excessively large steering wheel and cried his eyes out, when an hour and a half later we were trying to get him dressed to leave the place. If he had it his way, he would have spent the entire day there! In fact he probably would have been happy to stay overnight.

filling dad's slippers

Steve has just left for a short trip to Chicago with the band and Kaspar has been feeling more distressed then usual. At night he kept pointing at our bed and asking “tete? tete?” As soon as we came down in the morning, he found dad’s slippers and was wearing them all morning, taking his sweet time getting places, dragging his feet across the floor in the big shoes. I bet our basement neighbor was just thrilled… Kaspar is usually very good about not freaking out, when either of us leaves the house. He’s perfectly happy to just wave goodbye and get back to whatever he was doing. However, this time Steve left while Kaspar was sleeping. Perhaps that’s the reason…

we've been hit

Well. This is exactly the expression Kaspar was NOT wearing this morning. I made the mistake of showing him the snow first thing as we got up and he became the king of cranky for the rest of the morning. I suppose it’s sort of understandable, when you have to be stuck inside with your nose pressed to the window, while your parents are out shoveling the white stuff. Who said life was fare?

We were promised 10 cm of snow over night, but we woke up to more what seemed like 20 cm. And even that might be a conservative guess! In the middle of January we were complaining about lack of winter, well… we’ve finally been hit with winter. It took Steve and I a good half hour to shovel our paths clean, but it was a pleasant sort of shoveling - light, fluffy, clean, white snow.

Kaspar is surprisingly into winter! Yes, we do get the long and cranky dressing to go outside deal, but, once he’s outdoors, he’s pretty happy to be just outdoors. In fact, last week, when the temperatures were well below zero I found myself feeling cold and wanting to go back in well before he was ready to even think about the indoors. Once he’s dressed for the outdoors, he kind of looks like a stuffed doll that’s about to burst at the seams. He’s almost the same height as he is wide. And then he’s got his great thick hat that makes his head look huge. It’s very cute!

The winter clothes for toddlers, I have come to the conclusion, are designed not only for warmth but also for protection of falls and accidents. Wise, indeed! The bundled up children tend to climb snow banks on roll right back down, run on ice and fall flat on their backs, go stomping through the snow, only to get a foot caught and fall face first into the snow…. Well, you get the picture! I bet tobogganing would be a piece of cake!

did you say music?

Kaspar's favourite room lately seems to be the computer room a.k.a. "Steve's studio". He loves to push all the buttons he's not really allowed to push. He loves to take apart the CD stand. The best part is taking the CD's out of the cases, if there is enough time, before anyone notices! And he loves to dance while listening to dad's newest mixes on the headphones.

Television

This picture was taken in December, Christmas day, at my cousin's place. Can you guess what these four are doing? Yeah ... the glazed over expressions, the blank look in their eyes, concentration in the faces... of course they're watching TV!



I'm very proud to admit that for the last 12 years since Steve and I have known each other we have managed to make do with a little 15" TV that was inherited from his parents and probably purchased in the late 70's. I love that little television set! It's nice and compact, with a decent receiver and fake dark wood paneling on the sides. However, yesterday we upgraded to a brand new silver coloured 20" TV, which Steve managed to get at some factory outlet sale (or something along those lines) for a whole 40$! Now we have a TV, that's large by our standards, but it does not show even half of the channels we can get with the old one. I guess they just don't make them as good these days. They expect that everyone will have cable, I suppose.

But Kaspar is absolutely thrilled with the new TV. He stands in front of it and spreads his arms wide and makes the "big" sound. He does not yet have a word for big, but he does have this sound, that I cannot possibly explain in words, but when he makes that sound, and you see his little face, eyes wide like saucers, arms wide... you just know he's saying "big".

Speaking of words… Kaspar is learning new words fast, but I might have to devote a whole blog to that. However, I am most amazed with the fact that he already knows 6 letters. Yeah! My mom must have started teaching him, but he's been picking up new ones almost every day. He now likes to sit at the kitchen table scouring Harpers or Financial Post or some other adult paper or magazine for letters he'll recognize. He knows the letter "M" as well as "m" - that's "mamma's letter. "T" and "t" stands for dad. (In the beginning he called dad - "dad", but recently it's turned into "tete", which is a slang version of the Latvian "tetis"). "B" (he only recognizes the capital) for baby! "S" -for Silvija. "O" for "omu", which is his own version of "oma". "A" for apple and "K" for Kaspar, but he does not say "Kaspar", that one is still too hard for him, I think... he only points at his own chest. It's funny watching him studying the pages of text and getting so excited when he finds one of the letters he knows!

My mother has this story, that's always been a little hard to believe! It's bout me, at the age of three writing a happy birthday card for my dad and being able to spell happy birthday only by being told what letter comes next. I've always had a hard time believing it. However, if Kaspar has got pretty much a fifth of the alphabet memorized at 19 months... he might not be far from being able to spell. We just have to work on his penmanship. Hi, hi!

pointalism

I've got this guilt complex about the blog now. Not only that... I often find myself procrastinating.... doing other stuff, when I could be updating the blog. Kind of like Kaspar, when he's about to be taken to bed. He'll walk to the bathroom a half a dozen times - first asking to brush his teeth again, then asking for lip balm or cream for his hands or another bath or simply pretend he has to go pee over and over again.

I wonder if every parent has experienced this feeling of - what's wrong with my kid? I had that exact feeling, when last November out of the blue, Kaspar began to draw. No it was not that he was drawing per say, but rather that his drawings consisted mostly of little miniature doodles, dots and points. Pointillism. I had never seen a sixteen month old kid drawing like that. Most kids take a pencil in their fist and just draw a continuous line, gesture like shapes that cover most times not only the piece of paper, but also the table or floor beneath the paper. Not my kid!
Now, here is the strangest part... In the very beginning my faint attempts of asking what he was drawing (at that point he was not really talking yet) were actually gratified with an answer. He brought me over to the window, pointed at the gray sky and made little squeaky, squally noises. The gray sky was full of birds flying high above us. It took me a moment, but I figured it out - the noises he was making were the same as the noises we had heard the seagulls make at the park the previous day.
Now we communicate freely! If he sticks his nose against the paper and tries to smell it - it'a flower. The noise of a fire engine - an obvious one. The hand motion of throwing something against the floor, followed by a thumping sound - ball. And who said you need signing classes for kids. They invent their own signs. You just have to be patient enough to decipher them!

For Christmas, Kaspar got a large box of markers, pencil crayons and these paint sticks that are more like very oily and wet crayons (all washable, thanks to very wise gift givers!) Even though I try to watch him, he's discovered ways of getting to the markers on his own. Occasionally he hides a marker, while we draw and pulls it out later, when I'm not watching. He's a sneaky, smart little fellow! He'll draw with the marker, make some marks on the table or the chair, then pull me over to show them to me, yet, as he's wisely pointing them out to me he'll say "NOOOO!" in his most honest and serious sounding voice, and shake his head just like I do, when I'm telling him not to do something.

Now that several months have passed since those first few weeks of drawing, Kaspar has begun to draw like all kids do. He scribbles, and draws large and often goes over the page. But, if you ask him, what the little birds look like in the sky, he still goes back to drawing dots on the page. I love watching him and interrogating him about what he's drawing. :-)

boots

i love this picture &
kaspar loves the boots.

liar, liar....

Yeah. I’m a liar. I’m glad someone called me on it, or else you might not have seen the next entry until the following month or something. My brain is not in the “blog” mode yet. I actually forgot that I was blogging again….. an then of course, we’ve been on a trip and I’ve been feeling sick and all that jazz……

Kaspar has been thoroughly spoiled this holiday season, because everywhere we go he’s got play mates galore! It’s hard on us. Well, not the days with the kids, but the following days at home. Then we become the play mate substitutes. For instance, yesterday he took my hand, pulled me down onto the floor, I thought – ok, let’s play. However, he had something else in mind! He wanted me to crawl under the coffee table so that he could look at me through the glass from the top. Yeah. This was shown by not so gently pulling my hair in the direction of the coffee table and down. He’s devised a way of communicating, that involves a lot of physical contact, yet leaves him off the hook for having to speak. Smart little fellow!

Well, I took a few days off work after a nice mellow New Years’ eve with some friends and a hundred oysters (yum!). We went to Ottawa for a visit with friends of ours who are here for the holidays from Latvia and Kaspar hung out with Rudis & Inguss for a day. Here is Kaspar and Rudi just hanging out right after Rudis’ christening.

Then last week-end we attended a marvelous wedding for our friends Julija and Zanis ( and here is Zanis blog, which I found by fluke one day, while looking up info about orchid care ) The wedding was so spectacular that afterwards I felt like I had been on a holiday. I was involved with making wedding rings for them as well as doing the flowers, which all added up and kept me rather busy day and night the few days just before the wedding. Steve ended up picking up a lot of slack and Kaspar missed me, and clung to me like a little koala, when I did show up at home. At the wedding though, he was a doll. He was so happy to be amongst a crowd that as soon as I put him down, he’d dash through the legs of people and out the door, into the long hallway of the Latvian center and down and up the hall… It was hard to keep up, considering the high heals and my inability to sneak through people’s legs and under people’s drinks.

back... back.... back........ back........

It’s been close to four months since I wrote the last entry and what excuse do I have? I’ve been busy. Yes. Really busy!!! Most of my friends would just say – what else is new. But I’m sticking to my story! Besides "busy" takes on a whole other meaning, when you have a one year old at home. Really, it does!!!

At the end of September, after two weeks of missing blog entries I got short emails from family and friends inquiring when they "might see some new pictures of Kaspar", "would I be posting something soon" etc. Then, eventually, some began to worry and started calling or emailing and asking if we were ok. Thanks for caring, yes, we we’re fine! We’re kicking! We’ve been busy and I just ran out of time. Between juggling work and home and Kaspar and jewelry and laundry and dishes and the few volunteer projects I have had on the go… well, you get the picture…. Eventually all of you gave up, I think. And then, I gave up, too! I even thought about pulling the blog off the site and just calling it quits, but, then out of the blue a good friend emailed me a short note. It simply read "I miss bloggy". And it hit me – darn it, I MISS it, too! I miss writing it. I miss the comments. I miss the interaction… So, tonight, on the last day of this year 2006 the blog of Kaspar (even though, it’s mostly about me, who am I kidding?) gets resurrected. With a whole slew on new years resolutions, a whole stack of good thoughts and wishes to all my family and friends and people on the planet out there, everywhere……… I’m back.

So, what is new? I hate that question, even though, I am the first to use it on my friends and I’ll come clean - my answer is always the most predictable one – nothing…. It’s not all that true. Kaspar, for one, is bigger, taller, louder, faster, skinnier, more talkative, with more hair, more teeth, more demanding then the last time I blogged. He has leaned to pose for the camera. He has leaned to dunk things in the toilet and learned not to do that, too. He has developed a true love for books and loves to make the sound of an ambulance, as he’s reading about one, or just hearing one go by somewhere in the distance.

He has gone through a phase of love for celery, blueberries, black figs, melons, boiled carrots, apples and currently - raisins. I cannot complain. Raisins are definitely cheaper then fresh figs! It’s all transitional. I keep hoping for a meat or butter or cream kick, as I’m having a hard time making that kid gain a pound or two, but so far I’ve had no luck. He’s tough to please. He’s a picky eater. But all he eats is fruits and vegetables. Some mothers’ dream, I’m sure.
Kaspar has also gone through several colds and we’re just getting over the last. I’m amazed how true ring the experiences of other parents, who warned me that meeting other kids seems to be all about picking up another bug or two. The last cold started with the kiddy Christmas party a couple of weeks ago and got every one of us sick within 48 hours. Yeah, we spent the Christmas season recovering!

Christmas seems to have escaped me this year. Not only it’s been way too warm to feel like Christmas, but we’ve also been too busy and preoccupied with work to think about entertaining and this has lead to a total ‘lack of Christmas’ feeling for myself. Yes, Christmas has always been about having people over, cooking, baking, cleaning, decorating, sending cards, wrapping gifts... And I have managed to be too busy for all of the above!

Kaspar, however, has been spoiled silly for Christmas. Just this morning Steve and I had a little ‘discussion’ about the concerns we have regarding the piles of gifts (mostly new toys!) Kaspar has received. Being a parent is tough. You have to have a plan in place to deal with these things! And I don’t mean just the new toys… New toys simply mean having to organize and get rid of some of the old ones. Yeah. That means I HAVE more work to do! Argh… Then there are new clothes and closets and drawers to organize. These things seemed hard enough when there was just me, but now I’m doing it for all of us.

Anyhow… I’m going to stop right here, so, that you do not have too much to read the first time back. And I do hope to continue later tomorrow or the day after. Yeah, you can call me on it. I know, I do have some pending translation work, some pending jewelry work….. but….. I hope to be back for good….. later :-)